3 Steps To Make Sure That You Are Chatting With The Right Person on a Dating Site

3 Steps To Make Sure That You Are Chatting With The Right Person on a Dating Site


Actually meeting the person you are talking to is one of the most important steps to online dating. That sounds amusing but many online daters dwell on internet communication overly long. I made this mistake early on and now understand why a few girls, after several emails, would ask direct questions like “Is there anything else you would like me to answer?”. They didn’t want to answer more questions! They wanted me to get the show on the road and they were right to feel that way.

Every online dater knows the feeling of wanting more information about a potential suitor.

Maybe a person seems great – strong job, killer photos, fun vibe – but his or her answers to profile questions are sparse. Or you just want to know a tad bit more about what position he holds at that prestigious company or whether there are any other pictures out there for you to drool over before you meet.

Perhaps something seems a little off, and you don’t exactly trust what he is telling you. So you want to do a little detective work. Or you’ve had the experience of meeting a guy who is 20 pounds heavier, 10 years older, and much balder than he let on. Understandably, you don’t want to go through that again.

According to a survey, most people are starting to get comfortable with online dating. However, some minor mistakes are still what keeps people from meeting the person they so badly deserve. Online dating can be fun and easy if you know the tricks of the trade. Here are the 3 steps to make sure that are chatting with the right person on a dating site:


1. Ask Questions Properly


One of the best way to make sure you are chatting the right person on a dating site. Seeking for information is not necessarily important but gathering some point of his or her interest are more likely good that getting personal details. Asking light, simple questions is a sure fire way to keep a conversation going online. The more they answer, the more fuel you’ve got for the conversation. Even better, you’ve just won some major points by flattering their ego (even if it’s just a little).  Keep it fun, it’s not a job interview – make your question a little quirky and different. This way you stand out from the rest of the “fishies” and get a better reaction – and please, don’t ask something they’ve already answered on their profile.


2. Making sure your looking to a correct profile


Before starting a conversation or sending your message, conduct a research first by checking his profile, knowing his interest, and likes before sending your first message. With this, you will be able to know if that person fits and qualified on the type of a person what you are looking for. Sometimes you will also feel like you found the right one for you.


3. Find out his/her goals


As you getting to know each other looking forward for what happen in a month, a year or more years to come. Make sure that you are talking to a person that you are on the same page to save your time and avoid spending time for those people that from the start things didn’t work out. It is much better looking forward of what will happen because this is not just for a moment but you will spending the rest of your time. Make sure that before deciding on your first meet you have known the person up to the tip of his hair down to tip of his feet. Security and safety is very important to prevent from any unlikely things.




Chat online on free dating site is fantastic, and a great way to meet new friends. If you are very lucky, you may even meet the love of your life. I know many couples who met online through dating sites, social media, or online games and they are now very happily married. But you need to make sure that you are communicating the person that you can trust, be sure of and even not just so perfect but true.

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