In every successful relationship, there are fights and arguments. Sometimes resulting in a break-up. If this has happened to you, and you strongly believe that she is “the one”, consider the following tips on how to get your girlfriend back.
Refrain from acting in a jealous manner. Remember, feeling jealous after a break-up is an indication of insecurity, anxiety and fear concerning the loss of your partner.
2. Give her space
Allow her some space to dwell over the relationship. Women particularly will remember and reflect on the good times and fond memories you both shared. By leaving her alone, she’ll likely miss the good times you both shared together. You need to be seen as remaining cool and calm and in full control of your emotions.
3. Stop communicating with her
Although this is easier said than done, and is killing you inside, she’ll be feeling the pain just as much as you. She will begin to feel the loss of not having you in her life and soon realize how much she misses you. Stop communicating with her now!
4. Emotional recovery
You’ll have little hope of getting your girlfriend back if you are not calm and in control of your physical and emotional well-being. Most women are repulsed by desperate, needy or clingy men. So you need to make sure that you have your own life under control before you can even think about getting her back. Working out and exercise is the best way to start feeling good about yourself again.
5. Talk to other girls
This strategy can help you for many different reasons. After a recent break-up, emotions and feelings are very raw, and so being seen talking to other girls can easily and her into panic mode hence reaching out to you before she loses you forever. Do be careful that this does not back-fire. Don’t be seen with just one particular girl, as your ex might consider that you have a new girlfriend and could see this as a sign for her to move on.
6. Pretend nothing is wrong
Your ex-girlfriend won’t want you back in her life if you are acting depressed and miserable. Take steps to be seen having a great time and seemingly enjoying life. Again, this is a balancing act, because she needs to see that you’re hurting a little too, so she knows that you still care.
7. Get in shape
Clothes and confidence make the man! Get in shape and start looking your best. she’ll start to see the full potential in you and will start second guessing her decision to have broken up with you in the first place.
8. Continue to build confidence
Confidence is arguably the best asset any person can be lucky enough to own. Often wonder why the average and below average looking guys always snag the babes? Because these guys know all too well that women are suckers when it comes to a guy who is sure about himself. Look to other guys that you can use as roles models and learn their secrets. Grow your confidence and she’ll be back in your arms real soon!
Getting your girlfriend back can be easier than you imagine right now. However, by acting on the above tips, you’ll become a more saleable and attractive proposition that she won’t be able to resist.
by Matt Fuller is the owner of Girls Meet Guys Australia, which provides free dating sites and question/answer forums for single people.